1. “Never underestimate the power of the truth.” Many family secrets come to light over the course of the novel: Uncle Louie’s business, Jess’ parents’ money, and Mauro’s connection to the family, to name a few. What does knowing the truth mean for Jess and her family? How do these revelations affect the family and Jess?

2. What changes did Jess need to make in her life at the beginning of the novel? What role did her family play in her journey, and how did her relationship with her family change over the course of the novel?

3. How did Jess and Bobby’s divorce change Jess’ views on marriage and love? Why did Jess need to make a “vow of goodbye” to Bobby?

4. Why do you think it was so important for Jess to go to Italy? In what ways did life in Italy change Jess? What foundations did Jess choose to build her new life on?

5. What drew Jess and Angelo to each other? How did their relationship evolve over the course of the novel? What did Jess learn from her second chance at love?

6. “Tradition is a weighted blanket. It feels secure, but limits your movement.” In what ways is Jess able to strike a balance between tradition and change in her life? Do you favor one or the other in your own life?

7. The duality of Lake Como settings in both New Jersey and Italy makes for a fascinating juxtaposition of place and cultural identity --- from Jess’ hometown to her ancestral roots. How do these locations help her rebuild her sense of self? Have you ever taken a transformative trip that changed your perspective?

8. Many of the characters in the novel are craftsmen, artisans and artists. How does Jess’ views on her own skills change over the course of the novel? What role did the marble business play in her family’s story?

9. Have you ever visited Italy? If you were to start a new life for yourself like Jess did, where would you put down roots?

10. Jess learns to write her own story over the course of the novel. Do you have a version of a dream board that has come true?