1. In what ways are Daniel and Deena well suited to each other despite their religious differences? What are those differences? Does Judaism provide them a common ground for them or are their beliefs more dissimilar than similar?

2. How does the prophecy with which the book opens influence your reading of Giving Up America? Compare it to the influence it has on the marriage.

3. Does the epigraph of the novel&—"And God said to Avram: Go to yourself from your land, from the country of your birth, and from the house of your father, to a land that I will show you"&—relate to Deena's experience? What purpose does Abraham's journey away from his family have? Can it be compared to Deena's journey? Can you think of other literary journeys with similar purposes? Discuss the personal journeys of the other characters and whether they are successful or not.

4. Do you think Deena should have confronted Daniel earlier, when she first noticed signs of his interest in Jill? Did Deena's continued support of Daniel's friendship with Jill suggest to you that she may have wanted something to happen?

5. How do the quotes from Miracle at Philadelphia inform Giving Up America? Why is Paul Herz's story of interest to Deena?

6. Going home after having been away for several years, at college, for example, is a formative experience for many people. How is Deena's visit similar to such visits? How is it different?

7. Discuss the various metaphors in the novel--running, renovating a house, America--and how they function.

8. What does the book's title, "Giving Up America," mean in the context of the novel? What might "America" represent? In what ways does Deena give up America?

9. Daniel doesn't have a voice in the story until almost the last third of the novel. How does his voice affect you as a reader? Is his experience a formative journey too?

10. Deena's father claims that "Orthodoxy without the delight of Hasidism . . . is a very dry thing" (p. 38). Can you find instances in the book that prove or disprove his claim?