1. How do the relationships between the siblings --- Goose, Susan, Iris and Netta --- evolve throughout the story? What events or revelations most significantly impact their dynamics? Which sibling did you most identify with, and why?

2. How does Goose’s journey reflect the novel’s broader themes of family and self-discovery? What are some pivotal moments for him?

3. The lake house in Italy is a significant setting in the narrative. How does this environment influence the characters’ interactions and the unfolding of the plot? What setting is significant to you and your family? What memorable events have transpired there?

4. Discuss Bella-Mae’s role in the story. How does her presence affect the siblings’ quest for answers about their father?

5. Their father’s missing painting is a crucial plot point. How does the search for this painting symbolize the siblings’ search for understanding and closure? Have any objects taken on outsized significance for you in the throes of grief?

6. How does the novel explore the themes of loss and reconciliation? What moments particularly highlight these themes?

7. How does Susan’s character change from the beginning to the end of the narrative? What did you make of her relationship with Netta and how it changes in the wake of Vic’s death? What are the key factors that drive her transformation?

8. What secrets are revealed about the siblings’ father, and how do these revelations affect their perceptions of him and each other? Have you ever discovered something about a family member that changed your perception? Discuss.

9. Iris has a complex relationship to her past. How does her journey over the course of the novel reflect her attempts to reconcile with her history?

10. Discuss the scene where the siblings use stickers to claim items from the villa. What does this moment reveal about their personalities and relationships?

11. How did you feel about THE HOMEMADE GOD’s conclusion? Did it provide a sense of closure or leave you with lingering questions?

12. What do you imagine happens to the siblings after the events of the novel? How might their experiences at the lake house influence their futures?

13. How important do you think reconciliation and forgiveness are in maintaining family relationships? Are there situations where reconciliation might not be possible or advisable?