1. The author goes to great lengths to give us an idea of the life of girls at school. Do you think there was any humor underlying these descriptions? Why do you think these details are so thoroughly investigated? Are there other books you can think of in which the lives of girls are considered interesting?

2. Compare the family structures of the Butlers, Scofields, and Claytors. Are the families more alike or more disparate behind closed doors? How do Catherine, Audra, and Lillian compare as mothers? What about Dwight, Leo, and John? Do the men or the women of the family hold more influence or bear more responsibility for each family's happiness?

3. Lily Scofield can be, by turns, a somewhat enigmatic figure in the town of Washburn. How does our understanding of Lily shift as the book progresses? Were there moments of great surprise when you discovered something about her that you wouldn't have expected, or when points of character were revealed that you found shocking? What do you think motivates her actions, both within her "inner circle" and to the town at large?

4. Lily at first seems to be a young woman who has everything she could want. Does that make her someone with whom it's hard to sympathize? Have you ever had a friendship that is at all like the relationship Lily and Agnes have by the end of the novel?

5. Catherine Claytor is obsessed with beauty and appearances. How does this influence Agnes's state of mind, her actions, and her relationships with other people? Are there traits of Dwight Claytor that contribute to Agnes's development?

6. When Agnes becomes absorbed with her own life and begins to let the events of the Claytor household take care of themselves, did you think she was selfish? Why do you think that Catherine finally stepped in and became happier and more organized? Did you find the moments when Agnes and her mother are giving Bandit a bath ominous or moving or both?

7. Is Agnes attracted to Warren Scofield or does she only see him as a way to escape her own family? Does Warren love Agnes, or is it only time for him to settle down? How does life under the Scofields' roof affect Agnes? Does Agnes discover anything unexpected about the household? How does Warren and Agnes's marriage affect the family relationships?

8. The death of John Scofield seems to have several different versions, depending on whose viewpoint one takes. Which do you think is the correct one? Does it matter what the absolute truth is?

9. What other anecdotes, occurrences, and myths seem to be subject to interpretation in the book? How do the different versions come to be? Are there similarities in the way stories, opinions, and lore become altered? Do these small differences influence future events?

10. Warren is startled to discover that the statue in Monument Square reads "Our Country! By that dread name . . ." instead of "that dear name." What is the irony of this realization? Does this hold any significance when placed in the context of the previous question?

11. Discuss the nature of the original "trio's" relationship. What were your expectations of how they would live as adults? Compare this to the relationships of young Betts and Trudy, and of the "twins." Is this history repeating itself or are things different for the new generation?

12. At the end of the book, Agnes begins to believe that she has managed to create a happy family, and she believes it will go on forever and ever. Do you think that's what will happen? In light of the fact that this is the first of a planned trilogy, do you think this might be a bit of foreshadowing?

13. Who do you think is the "her" of the title? And what is "the evidence"? Does the title change your assessment of the book? Do you think there is a single answer to this question, or does it seem to be purposely ambiguous? Did you ever stop for a moment while reading this book in order to reconsider a moment in your own life?