1. We respond so differently to death, particularly when we lose someone we dearly love. How would you describe Mimi's reaction to Sarah's death?

2. Rivka is such a complex and difficult woman. If you were in Mimi's position, how would you handle Rivka differently?

3. We see Mimi through one year of her life. Is there a point in the novel when your feelings about Mimi change?

4. Unlike our experience with Mimi, we follow Rivka through her entire life. How do you feel about Rivka at the beginning of the novel? And is there a point in the novel when your feelings about Rivka change?

5. Why do you think Mimi is so uncomfortable in her relationships?

6. What are your feelings about the relationship between Mimi and Daniel throughout the novel? Do those feelings change as Mimi approaches the end of journey of introspection?

7. If you were Daniel, how would you react to Mimi?

8. In your opinion, who was the central character in this novel?

9. Discuss one scene in the novel that you found memorable.

10. If you could rewrite the last chapter, what would happen between Daniel and Mimi? And what do you think the author intended to happen?