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Discussion Questions

Eternal Journey

1. Why do you think Anna becomes so desolate after Beth dies? In addition to her profound grief, how does this loss affect Anna's life? Does losing a loved one at mid-life have unique characteristics or do you see grief as grief, no matter what the age of the deceased or bereaved?

2. Why do you think Anna could never "move on" after Kevin dies? Does this strike you as just "soapy fiction" or is there indeed something "eternal & karmic" about a woman's "first " love?

3. Does Anna just have powerful dreams when suffering a loss, as she does when Kevin dies and then Beth, or do you believe in after-death communication?

4. Consider each of the characters that Anna runs into on the island. Do all of these people actually exist or are they figments of Anna's imagination? Do they each serve to help Anna work through her grief? How?

5. Who is "little" Beth? Is she merely a ray of sunshine when Anna is at her lowest point? Or is she more than that? Is there any connection between John's niece and "little" Beth from the bookstore?

6. What do you make of the "Michael" & "Becky" characters? What purpose do these characters serve? Why do you think Anna's relationship with Becky has survived for so long given their differences? What do you make of Michael's "epiphany" at the end of the story?

7. Can you identify with -or imagine---Anna's pain? How did Anna honor her pain? Do we all have to mourn alone "on an island" as Anna did? Is Anna typical or not of how we, in this society, deal with loss and grief?

8. Do you have a close, life-long friendship similar to Anna's and Beth's? If so, does Eternal Journey manage to convey the depth of that connection? If not, are you skeptical that such friendship is possible? Is so, why?

9. What feeling are you left with at the end of the story? Spend some time embracing & sharing those emotions. Feel vs. Analyze your reaction to the book. ADDTIONAL QUESTIONS ON METAPHYSICALCONCEPTS

10. What do you believe happens when we die? How does grief serve to open the pathway to spirit? Does it?

11. Discuss what is meant by "level of consciousness" both neurologically and spiritually. Where is the "spirit" (or consciousness) when the physical body relies on artificial means for survival? Relate your beliefs/opinions to the events in Eternal Journey, particularly Anna's communication with John.

12. Do you believe in metaphysical possibilities? Have you ever had a vivid dream that answered a question for you or foretold of a event not yet experienced?

13. Eternal Journey is rich in Celtic imagery. From a Celtic perspective, Anna goes to the "otherworld" on Martha's Vineyard. List some of the "spiritual" beliefs of these "primitive" people. Reconcile those with death and mourning rituals and practices common in our society today.

14. After reading Eternal Journey, how do you feel about the "advice", if not expectation in our society, that after someone we love dies, we need to "move on"?

15. The essential message of Eternal Journey is that while those we love may die and leave us in the material world, our "spiritual" connection to them is eternal. Do you believe this or simply see it as a way of consoling those who mourn?

16. In the first few pages of Eternal Journey we read Beth's eulogy. In it she tells us that her cancer "brought her to an awareness that?..we need to live in the moment." Can you contemplate that cancer may be a "gift" in that it serves to "wake" one up? What does "live in the moment" mean to you?

17. Finally, has reading Eternal Journey influenced you in any way in your attitude toward death, dying and grief?

Eternal Journey
by Carol Hutton

  • Publication Date: August 1, 2001
  • Paperback: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
  • ISBN-10: 0446677310
  • ISBN-13: 9780446677318