Palm Beach County
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This
group of diverse women have found a common bond in books. Thanks to Karen
Bernier of Palm Beach County for talking about her group with us.
Q.
Does your group have a name and/or a theme?
A.
I have suggested Readers of Western Palm Beach County, but that didn't
take. We just call it Our Book Club. Our paths cross constantly through
church, work, and other social events, so we always talk about Our Book
Club.
Q. How long has
your group been in existence?
A. At least 6 years based on the number of books read.
Q. How many members
do you have? How many men, how many women? What age are most
of your members?
A. We began with five and currently have eleven members. Men
have never been invited. Our ages range from mid-forties to mid-fifties,
with one 28-year-old daughter of a member. One is widowed, the others
are married with children ranging from 19 months to 31 years. For some
reason, six of our members work in healthcare --- 4 nurses, 1 physical
therapist, 1 nurse practitioner. The others are stay-at-home
moms, a teacher, and an accountant.
Q. How often and
where do you meet?
A. Every five weeks on a Monday evening in a members home. Our original
discussion was four weeks by those with grown children and 6 weeks by
those with small children so we compromised. At one point we tried to
accommodate everyone's schedule, but then we decided every fifth Monday
unless it is a holiday.
Q. Do you eat at
your meetings?
A. Yes, but food is downplayed since everyone is watching her weight
and usually has just finished dinner.
Q. Who leads the
discussion? Do you use reading group guides?
A. The book is announced at the prior meeting by the member who will
host the next meeting. The hostess provides the house, snacks, and leads
the discussion. No book guides have been used. Discussion questions can
be anything from "What have been your experiences or feelings about the
homeless?" after reading Grand Central Winter by Lee Stringer,
to "Have you ever thought of walking away from your marriage?" after reading
Ladder of Years by Anne Tyler, to "Do you believe this was fact
or fiction?" after reading Mutant Message Down Under by Marlo Morgan.
Q. What kind of
books do you read?
A. Anything goes, as long as it is available in paperback and is still
in print.
Q. How do you choose
your books? Do you choose one new book at each meeting, or do you
choose the books for a number of meetings ahead of time?
A. Books are chosen by the presenting member a meeting before...we
like the suspense!
Q. What were some
of the best discussions or favorite books the group read?
A. Recently, a Harry Potter book sparked a discussion about modern-day
witches, wicca, and religion. Across Time and Death by Jenny Cockell,
which deals with reincarnation, was very interesting, as we had invited
a Catholic priest and Episcopal priest to read the book and come join
our discussion. Our youngest member attended her first meeting as a guest
to read and join in the discussion about Midwives
by Chris Bohjalian, as she had just moved back to Florida from Vermont
and had a home birth by a midwife. (She recently had her second "home
delivery".) One member still will not eat hamburgers after our discussion
of Toxin by Robin Cook.
Q. How do you keep
things fun?
A. The diversity of our group keeps things fun. For some reason we
have never met anyplace else or had a dinner. We just enjoy being together
and discussing books.
Q. What advice
would you give to other groups?
A. Make sure that each member has an address roster of the others
if they want to car pool, e-mail or otherwise get together. Some members
share the books, ordering them or getting them at the library. Also, have
one member keep a list of the books that you have read and periodically
give out the updated version. It is like a walk down memory lane.
Q. Do you have
any horror stories, amusing anecdotes, or other special tales to tell?
A. One member wanted us to choose books that had been made into movies
so she could see the movie instead of reading the book! She weeded herself
out.
And --- this
is comic --- another member (me) once showed up for a meeting, was
let in by the hostess's husband and was chatting with him and asking where
his wife was. He answered, "She has book club tonight." It turns out I
was at the wrong
house! We still laugh at that.
ReadingGroupGuides.com interviews
special reading groups around the world, spotlighting a different group
each month. We hope that you enjoy reading about their experiences and
might find some new ideas to try with your group. If you belong to a group
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